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A Message To Forum Members: CONFLICT and KINDNESS

Posted By: Russ

A Message To Forum Members: CONFLICT and KINDNESS - 02/08/07 10:28 PM

As founder of this forum, it is my greatest desire to see benefit come from it. Because of you, this forum has become an outstanding place to receive sound information from a group of exceptionally intelligent and passionate people who obviously care enough to help others with no personal benefit to themselves.

Bravo and many thanks to all of you!


As humans, we occasionally need to be reminded that how we say what we do is a reflection of who we are, and by being the best we can be, we influence others in the most powerful way possible:

By example.


In the course of human conversation, conflicts arise. This is normal and healthy. When a conversation becomes heated, it indicates that people care deeply about something, and that's an exceptionally admirable sign of one of the most important gifts we can have:

To care or have passion.


Another admirable quality is self-control, from which much of our personal reputation is derived.


We believe participation on this forum should include open and diverse conversation from opposing viewpoints, and have so far allowed it on this system in as much as we have had liberty to do so. Please help us continue this open position by posting your opposing views using self-control to display kindness and respect.

Let us remember that our primary purpose here is to help people. Let not our emotions distract us from this goal. Conversation arising from disagreements can certainly benefit; discord does not.

To disagree is human.
To disagree respectfully is humanity.


Let's retain both our diversity and humanity by disagreeing respectfully.


Finally; Laura and I thank all of you for making this forum a powerful source of vital information and healing for far more people than you probably realize. Let us remember that all of us who understand the truth about mercury toxicity are in conflict together against the large organizations that incorrectly state that mercury is safe. In closing, this virtual gathering is all about people.

Without your vital participation, this system is nothing more than a worthless piece of software. With your vital participation, this gathering will be whatever you allow it to be.
Posted By: jid

Re: KINDNESS In CONFLICT - 02/09/07 07:04 AM

Thanks Russ
Posted By: Russ

Re: KINDNESS In CONFLICT - 02/09/07 07:52 AM

You're Welcome !

We have a great group of people here. Let's continue to help people as we have been doing so well, and let's remember that each of us fail, say things we regret, and sometimes melt down. In the end, it's all OK so long as we allow it to be.


Quote from the movie "Forces of Nature" (Sarah speaks to Ben):

"Never forget her birthday. Make a really really big deal out of it. ...talk to her like a human being. Oh and do not wear socks to bed. No socks to bed cuz you might not be all that attractive to begin with. Always, always side with her in an argument with your mother. Listen to her like you mean it. ...Never hit. And um, no matter what annoying habits she has, realize that shes dealing with a huge mountain of imperfections every day so you might just want to let it go."
Posted By: Anonymous

Re: KINDNESS In CONFLICT - 02/10/07 06:37 PM

Timely message. I agree that there is a great group of people that frequent this foum, and they have helped many including myself. We need to keep in mind your words posted here and maintain kindness in conflict, disagreeing respectfully. Thank you.
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