--EXCUSES --(Lies?)Several years ago I visited a man who had stopped attending our church. Joe was getting up in years but was in fairly good health.
He greeted me at the door but hesitated to let me in. "'Joe," I explained through the screen, "we've missed you in church. Is there any problem I should be aware of?"
"No," he replied. "I'm getting older and am having some trouble getting around. It's just too difficult for me to make church anymore."
"I'm sorry to hear that. There are a lot of steps here and at church. I know you don't have a car, and it's a good mile from here to church. Is there any way we can help?"
"I don't know who I'd ask for a ride," he said, and I detected the implication:
And I don't want you to arrange one, either. "How about if I visit you regularly as a shut-in, instead? I could come to your house each month with Communion and a tape recording of one of the services for you to listen to at your convenience. How would you like that?"
Joe's face dropped suddenly, and his eyes averted mine.
"That wouldn't work out because I'm gone so much. You'd seldom find me at home." ~~
--John E Kassen